Whooah.... I just read one super long full of hatred post...
And I got a lot to say...
But dont worry, i will try to be More Tactful...
Its okay to be angry or super mad with someone and surely you can talk about this with your friends... and bear in mind that this is not considered as talking behind their back... everybody needs some people to confide in and tell how they really feel about another person... that is totally fine... but when you confide, dont just talk about the bad things, talk about the good things also, and then why not discuss about how to solve the matter...And dude and dudettes, misunderstandings are always bound to happen, reason being, people dont always think alike...
And lets say, if you dont like it when someone did something on you... why not tell them nicely face to face, and when you are angry, never take actions, because when you do, most of your actions are irrational...Tell them politely, that you dont like whatever things that they are doing to you. And not get so mad and frustrated about it. Because things like this, are considered small matters.
Lets say, if you dont trust this friend of yours... just listen to what they have to say, but that doesnt mean you have to believe them... it all depends, sometimes you may agree or disagree with them so judge base on your own judgement.
And to those hypocrites out there... it would be really nice to know that you are also someone who can be sincere in whatever you say or do...
My mom always say, if you want to hate someone, hate them and let them know that you hate them. At least you sincerely hate them. :)
You dont have to pretend to be nice to that person you dislike, just because they are with you, its unkind.
And if you have some problems with some of your friends, why not approach them and talk about it... Why keep it to yourself and create all kinds of assumptions and accusations and make matters worse??
Its not wrong to be open and honest right?? And for some special cases, you just need a liitle sarcasm to get back to their faces for saying mean things about you.
Settle your problems bravely, dont use all those Stupid ways, and i really mean stupid and coward ones.
Dont play behind, play it infront. That is if you have the Guts!
And dont use threats, cause its really not nice to do so...
Even if you are angry or confused, bear in mind that they are still your friends. Why such harsh and mean attitude?