I feel like i have to say my words. My ears are wide and listening... If you feel pain, i hear it. If you feel lost, i hear it. When you tell me, i know it. Lately, i've been hearing mostly about relationship kind of stuffs. Geeeshh, girls please protect yourself from jerks and useless buffaloes that exist out there, ain't worth it. But then, its still your choice. You can choose to hang on to that guy or just let him go if you have to.
These are my opinion.
Case 001: A beautiful lady stucked with a jackass.
If that guy is being such a jackass!! I see no point in feeling for him. He who ignores your true feelings for him. He who looks at other girls while you are standing right beside him, prepared to stick with him through thick or thin. He who doesn't care for your feelings. He who treats you indifferently from the other girl-friends he had, like as if you are nothing special to him. He who doesn't cherish your presence. He who takes you for granted knowing that you will always stay with him and forgive him. He who takes advantage of you.
For this girl, if there was any guy that truly is meant for you and till death do you guys part, its just not this Him. There may be some good in him, but the bad in him, in my eyes, overshadows his goodness. Not worth your time, your tears and in fact your jealousy.
Case 002: The one with nightmares, Stop wondering who it may be, yes its you!
You! I know you feel a lot for this guy and so-so. The feeling you have for him goes very deep in your heart that you feel that he is everything to you, in life and in death. But wake up!! See reality. My girl, what i see is that this guy ain't good for you. A good guy respects your body, your self-esteem, your feelings and most of all your decisions. When you say no he listens and do not force you to do what you dont want to do. But he... For me, he's a little too overboard. Pushing you around like as if he owns you or you owe him your life. Scolding you for every little mistake you do intentionally or unintentionally. Making you feel so small. I feel like you shouldn't have gave in to him. I feel like you should have left him for good. Regardless of what you think your mission (to help him change) is. All i see is that, here you are trying to help him but on the way you had to sacrifice a lot of yourself for him. It doesnt help anything. You help him, but you need help. He makes your mind filled with distraught and fear. And of course, i'll still do your favour for your sake. I really want you to think this through, probably not right now but after your exams. Okay!! I want to see you happy not worried and always over-thinking.If he is a really really good guy, he won't let you suffer eventhough you may say that you are not suffering.
